Needs Vs Desire

Hi uolls!!

Happy weekends ahead..today i would like to share something common in our life..THIS IS FACTS! Our NEEDS  & DESIRES.. do u guys ever wonder n know how to separate between your needs & desire? Semua org mempunyai keinginan dan impian yang besar kan..tp seiring juga dgn keperluan, kadang2 kita terpaksa ketepikan keinginan itu atas dasar keperluan yang masih tidak mencukupi.. 

In life, there are those things we need, and those things we desire. Where we really screw ourselves up is when suddenly the things we desire, in our minds become things we need. Somehow skg kebykan keinginan juga dah menjd seperti 1 keperluan.. think what that would be?? 

Needs are those things that provide for our daily existence – food, water, shelter. Human love and companionship can most certainly be described as a need, for without it the soul shrivels and withers away.

Knowing what you need and recognizing those things that are wants are an important part of any self-improvement endeavor. Needs provide for your daily existence, while wants are most likely those things that give you happiness and fulfillment.

1. Determining Needs vs. Wants

Ok, well said, needs are very basic, and should be easy to recognize. Strip your existence down until it is naked, and you will see that what you need is not very complicated. To look at it another way, imagine you were stranded somewhere, alone. Go ahead and use the proverbial island if you wish. If you were concerned about finding food, having enough drinking water, escaping predatory animals, and seeking shelter, would you really care about those Jimmy Choo’s, YSL or Ferragamo? or fret because your sales numbers were down during the last quarter? Probably not.

This is an extreme example, but it helps you get your mind where it needs to be in order for you to figure out what is really important in life.. 

2. Realizing Your Own Realistic Needs

Now let’s jump back into civilized society and figure out what really matters. Do you need the corporate job that gives you an ulcer? Do you need your husband or wife, and your children? Do you need your flat in Manhattan? Do you need your Mercedes Benz or BMW? Hopefully, the only question you answered yes to was the one about your family.

Now think about what you really want out of life. Consider how you want to be remembered after you are gone. Now compare those things with your needs and wants. Can you strike a compromise between how you want to live and those things you desire? This is a crucial step towards finding balance in your life. some may said that im a materialistic but to me its realistic! nothing is FREE in this world and EVERYTHINGS is just about MONEY!

3. Balancing Your Needs With Your Wants

It is unrealistic to try to live without any desires. Desires fuel our creativity, energize us, give us fulfillment, and push us to reach our goals.

The problem arises when your desires become your needs. Suddenly your desires put you into a state of desperation, and a desperate person is not a reasonable person, a rational person, or a calm person.

As a result, the desperate person will push away the people around them, rather than drawing them in.

This is an important concept to keep in mind as you continue your journey to self-improvement. Wants, or desires, are things we would like to have but they do not sustain us. When you are prioritizing your life, first give your attention to those things that ensure your existence, your happiness, and your well-being. Look at anything above and beyond that as icing on the cake.

When it comes to finding your balance between your needs and your wants, this is where you may need to find that compromise. Rather than insist on the brand new Mercedes, buy one that is two years old but in great condition. Or buy a loaded car like the Hyundai Sonata at half the price. Choose the options that do not put a strain on your bank account or your emotional well-being. Use this philosophy in all aspects of your life to bring everything into harmony.

FARA

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